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So what's the deal
with anal sex? Mention these two words and you get strong reactions.
Some people love it and are very vocal about it, some prefer
to keep this side of their sexuality under wraps. There are
also individuals who are horrified at the very thought of anyone,
even themselves, touching their anus in an erotic way.
All of these reactions
are normal. We hope this guide will be useful. It's a taboo
subject, but that's also part of the appeal. Regardless of how
you feel about it, it's a fact that everyone's anus is rich
in nerve endings. It's a sensitive, erogenous zone of the human
body -- one that can bring amazing pleasure once it's awakened.
Most people's main concern is pain. But the truth is, anal sex
performed the correct way is pleasurable, not painful.
Toys
for Anal Play
Always use a toy
with a flared base for anal play. Why? Because when the internal
sphincter loosens up, there's nothing to stop whatever object
you've got in there from slipping far into the rectum. A flared
base, or a ring you can grasp on to, keeps that from happening.
Butt
Beads
Butt beads are actually
some of the oldest anal sex toys around, having first been used
in Asia thousands of years ago. They are also known as love
beads, anal beads or string of pearls. They are not the same
thing as orgasm balls, which are larger in size and are inserted
into the vagina. Butt beads are a great way to start exploring
anal play, on your own or with a partner. Beads are more elegant
than butt plugs, and the sensation is quite different. We like
the jelly beads without string, because they're easier to clean.
However, the classic beads are also fun. Just remember if your
beads are hard plastic, use a nail file to remove any seams
before first use.
Butt
Plugs
Many people enjoy
the sensation of fullness that a butt plug provides. You can
use a butt plug by itself, during oral sex, during vaginal intercourse,
whenever. There are many sizes available, so you can start small
and decide what's best for you. Vibrating butt plugs are great
for beginners to anal play. The vibrations loosen up and relax
the anus, and even the experienced report that they love the
extra thrill.
Lubricant
With all anal play,
lube is essential. The anus does not self-lubricate like the
vagina. We don't encourage using anal lubes with numbing agents
in them, because most health professionals and sexperts agree:
numbing the anus before penetration causes you to lose sensation
of pain, which can be a very good indication of whether or not
you are actually ready to be anally penetrated.
The
Sphincters
Your ass may seem
to have a mind of its own. That's because the sphincters are
a complicated set of muscles that loosen in stages. The external
sphincter is regulated by the central nervous system, meaning
you can flex it easily. The internal sphincter operates as a
reflex - it tells your brain that your bowels are full and you
better get to the bathroom soon! Not many people can control
their internal sphincter without some practice, so don't worry
if you can't. The internal sphincter will only loosen if you're
really relaxed, and into it. The entry, through the external
sphincter, is usually a little painful. If it hurts when you
go deeper, through the internal sphincter, you are probably
not relaxed enough. Slow down, relax, breathe deeply. If that
doesn't work, switch for a while to another sexual activity
that doesn't involve anal stimulation.
Cleanliness
Bathing the area
before you begin is always a good idea. Also, never use toys
in the vagina that have been used in the anus, because bacteria
can be transferred and cause infection. In fact, we recommend
using condoms over your butt toys, or better yet, reserving
certain toys just for anal use.
Communicate
It's important to
pay attention to your body's signs in order to play anally the
safe way. If you are with a partner, communicate and get feedback
from them on how it feels. Don't do anything you don't feel
like doing, and don't accept pressure from your partner if you're
not ready.
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